Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Understanding attitudes toward bureaucracy in Spain


It feels time for another long, rambling, and self-indulgent reflection on Spanish life and culture.

It certainly feels as if there are aspects to Spanish culture (and likely this is true for other cultures as well, including the USA) that one can only notice and begin to appreciate by living in that culture for an extended period of time. For example, I wrote in an earlier post about line waiting behavior; we’ve also alluded to the jamón (ham) culture here as well. I had an experience earlier this week that seemed to illuminate another aspect of Spanish culture, as I’ll describe below.

To begin, I first need to note that I’ve taken up a new sport. It is called padel (sounds just like “paddle”). http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Padel_tennis For people who play racket sports, here is an easy way to understand what padel is. The rules are very similar to squash; you play with tennis balls on an outdoor court that is kind of like a miniature tennis court; you use a racket that is the same size as a racquetball racket but is made of solid hard foam. As a racket sports player, I find padel to be very easy to pick up and very fun. Not the least of which, hitting the ball with the padel racket produces a really satisfying “pop” sound, sort of like when you hit a really hard and good shot in tennis. Our urbanizacion has a padel pista or court (this is not unusual), and the deportivo (sports complex) nearby (about a 10 minute walk) has many. I take lessons at the deportivo in the mornings twice a week – along with a group of extremely nice upper middle class Spanish stay-at-home moms. There are two very small classes that meet at the same time – a “Level I” class with 3 or 4 people and one instructor Jaime, and my “Level II” class with me, one other player, and our instructor Andres.

As further context, on Tuesday of this week, there was a Spanish national holiday – no school for the kids, all shops closed, etc. Because this holiday was on a Tuesday, the status of Monday was very ambiguous. For all Madrid public schools, classes were cancelled on Monday, giving everyone a 4-day weekend. But because our Jewish school has had so many class cancellations for holidays recently, our kids did have class on Monday. And shops were by and large open on Monday.

My padel class meets every Monday morning. So come this past Monday, after dropping off the kids at school, I went over to the deportivo for my class. But no one was there when I arrived. I began to think that, due to the ambiguous holiday-ish nature of Monday, perhaps we didn’t have class. (In general, there is no system in place for determining when class is held and when it is not held here. If it has rained a bit and/or the courts are wet, there is no way that I can find out whether class is being held or not, other than showing up at the court.)

But in a few minutes, a friend from the Level I class showed up, as well as Jaime, the instructor for the Level I class. The friend and Jaime then started to have a long conversation about whether or not class was cancelled. In this conversation, it came out that the status of the class was very uncertain. Jaime, even though he was the instructor of the class, did not know if class were being held that day. Eventually, Jaime went into the deportivo main building and found Andres (the other padel instructor) there, but Andres did not think that we had class so he didn’t come to the court. But he also was not sure about the official status of Monday’s class. In the end, my friend, Jaime, and I hit the ball around for most of the hour.

Now note that the national holiday was not a surprise to anyone. As of many months ago, it was clear that the holiday was going to occur on a Tuesday and that schools were going to be cancelled on Monday. I would have expected there to be some advance notice – to coaches and to class enrollees – that class would not be held on Monday, if this were indeed the case. But the status of class on Monday was (and, to my knowledge, still is) uncertain. When I told my friend in the Level I class that it seemed a bit odd that no one (even the instructors) seemed to know anything about the status of class, she shrugged and said, “Es España” – this is Spain.

In the end this situation was no big deal – I got to play a bit of padel on Monday. But the wheels in my brain are trying to make sense of how this situation can occur in this country. How is it that no one knows (or is bothered by the fact that they don’t know) about the status of the padel class on Monday? Here is my analysis.

I get the sense that everyone (e.g., the instructors, the managers at the deportivo, etc.) assumed that someone else would be making the decision about the status of classes on Monday. Of course no one knew who would be making the decision, when the decision was/would be made, or what the decision was. Thus individuals were very reluctant to take action based on their guess of what the decision was, perhaps for fear of being wrong.

I can’t decide whether this attitude should be characterized as “certainty” or “uncertainty” – perhaps it exists somewhere in between the two. Everyone was completely uncertain about the decision re: padel class on Monday. But they were unfazed – very certain of their uncertainty – and thus in no need to address this uncertainty.

I feel that this interpretation helps me understand some of our experiences at the Spanish consulate in Boston and the Spanish immigration office here in Madrid when getting our visa paperwork. In Boston, there was this tax that someone mentioned we might have to pay when getting our visas. However, (a) no one seemed to know whether or not we’d have to pay the tax, (b) no one seemed to know how much the tax would be, and (c) no one knew how they or we might find out more information about (a) or (b). Similarly, here in Madrid, one week before we went to pick up our residency cards, there was the same issue. A tax had to be paid before we picked up our cards. But no one knew how much the tax would be, and no one knew how this issue could be figured out. They just said to come back in a week or so. (And we did, and the issue was somehow resolved.) From Heather’s cousin Mary, we hear similar stories about her experiences with the Spanish bureaucracy.

I’m not sure exactly how to characterize this state of affairs. Comfort with bureaucratic indecision, combined with a reluctance to deviate from the perceived chain of command? Resigned acceptance of one’s place (or lack thereof) in arbitrary decision-making processes? Somehow Spaniards seem to have this comfort/acceptance in all aspects of dealing with bureaucracies – governmental and otherwise.

It is difficult, however, for my USA DNA. I have come to expect that (a) an ultimate decision maker exists – that someone somewhere knows or determines the answer to these types of bureaucratic questions, (b) it is possible for someone at a lower level of the bureaucracy to figure out who this ultimate decision maker is, and (c) there is a known time or time range when the decision maker will or has made the decision. I have found that none of these three US-centric expectations exist in most bureaucratic decisions here in Spain, and that most Spaniards don’t seem to mind.

I’m sure that there is a dissertation somewhere that has studied this, but how did I develop the attitude that I have about bureaucracies, and how did Spaniards develop their attitudes? From the Spanish side, does the fact that Spain was a dictatorship for so long factor into the development of these attitudes? I’ve heard of similar attitudes in Italy, but not from Germany, for example – does this support the dictator theory? Spanish friends or those who have experienced similar phenomena in other countries, I would be interested in your thoughts.







Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Aranjuez photo

Courtesy of Miguel, here's a picture of our family at the Aranjuez bullfighting ring. As you can see, it's a gorgeous ring, still in use by actual bulls and American families on sabbatical. Note Seth: He was our own little toro, running for the cape only to be faked out by Jon.

news from Nora

Today is very rainy, and so will be the next nine days. Yesterday, my friends went trick or treating with their friends and with me around the complex. But their friends went with them out of the complex. I got two pieces of candy. One person said “No quiero truco tratos!” That means I don’t want trick or treaters. They must have stayed out very late because they are having their breakfast now (it is 11:00!) (Actually, 6:00 your time).

Anyway, I have had 9 exams already! I have 3 exams this week. In the Spanish exams I get up to 80%. But in English I get up to 99%. Tests are called Exams or Controls. The English subjects are Art, English and Science. My favorite are these three because I love the teacher Alexandra. She speaks Spanish and English. I LOVE MATH (except for the fact that it’s in Spanish). In one of my tests I got an 89%. It was in Spanish. I have 5 friends. But two girls are whispering behind my back. :(

I like playing hide and seek touch. That’s hide and seek tag basically.

Nathan is at a birthday party.

We’re going to Paris! For my birthday I decided to go to Paris. Our hotel (Daddy thinks) can see the Eiffel Tower. I’m going to miss Friday and Monday of school. (NB from Mommie: Probably the only time Nora will get taken to Paris for her birthday—couldn’t pass up the chance!).

Monday, October 31, 2011

A most excellent weekend

Relevant facts about our weekend


1) It was 70 degrees and sunny here in Madrid (sorry, East Coast followers).


2) My parents are w/o phone or power on said East Coast. Anyone in Glastonbury who wants to stop in to check up on them would be much appreciated.


3) Our weekend was highlighted by a visit to our friends in Aranjuez. Like us, they are mathematics educators of the common-sense variety. They are also excellent cooks and have endeavored to teach us about Spanish cuisine. Here's lunch:


- Sharp Manchego cheese

- Even sharper Manchego cheese soaked (somehow) in olive oil and rosemary. Yum.

- Good ham.

- Even better ham.

- A chicken-and-rice dish that seemed to be the cousin of Paella. Yum.

- For the kids, pasta spiked with chorizo. Because everything is better with Chorizo. Everything. (Even chick peas, which was on the menu last night in the Starhill household and which, remarkably, our kids ate).


During lunch, Miguel and Nuria also apprised us of the nuances of Spanish life: why the Estados Unidos is E.E. U.U. when abbreviated (plurals are indicated in abbreviations by doubling the letter); the Spanish environmental movement (short answer: not really a big movement here, the Spanish tend not to worry too much about such things); the use of the reflexive form of the past tense of various verbs (for Jon; Heather is just happy to conjugate correctly in the present tense). Nuria also corrected Jon’s upcoming talk (in Spanish) to the faculty of the Complutense.


Another pleasure of the visit was that the day was conducted completely in Spanish. Fabulous for our vocabulary and self-confidence. Pictures to follow.


4) On Sunday morning, we went to the Rastro market. Apparently, the Rastro is the largest open-air market in Europe, taking up at least 16 square city blocks. Yesterday, owing to nice weather and the time change in Europe, it was packed to the gills. We successfully got a hat for Heather and light gloves for the kids, then fled.


But meanwhile, guess who we randomly ran into while in a small Chino (convenience store) in the Rastro? Let’s recall that we really only know three families in Madrid: Miguel and Nuria, my cousin Mary and her husband Manolo (who probably wouldn’t chance the Rastro with two 3-year-olds), and the British family downstairs. Who are out of town. If you guessed Miguel and Nuria, you guessed correctly. Our next JRME paper will be titled “The probability of running into practically the only family we know in a city of 6 million while at a market packed to the gills with thousands of Madrileños.”


5) Other bits from our weekend:



Math wars, home edition: Got in a screaming argument with Nora Saturday AM to the tune of:


Mommie: “Nora, memorize your multiplication facts. You’re doing division this week in school, and you need to know your facts.”

Nora: “No way. I can figure any multiplication fact out if I need to. Like 7 x 8 is like 14 x 4 which is like 28 x 2. Which is like (counting on fingers) 56.”

Mommie: “There’s no counting fingers in this family. Go to your room and memorize your 7’s table.”

Nora: (Sulking). “OK. But I don’t need to. I can always figure it out.“


The irony of this situation would be lost on my 31-year-old, reform-math-loving self.


Pokemon: Our children traveled all the way to Madrid to become addicted to Pokemon. Go figure. Although it does appear to be a good cold-weather activity for the older ones.


Nathan’s nose: Yes, it is broken. However, it has shrunk to its normal, adorable size, and the doctor thinks it’s on track to heal within a month.


Seth & bunnies: So Seth and I like to go running while Jon and the big kids are out at swim lessons (the kids, not Jon—he’s doing laps). One night we rounded the corner and came upon two rabbits peacefully eating grass in a park. The rabbits in parks here look suspiciously like they were once household pets – rather than gray, they come in white, black, spotted and so on. Seth’s comment, after adorably holding up two fingers to indicate that there were two creatures: “We buy those rabbits.”

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Nora's comment

Nora says…

When Mommie says that I do something like, for instance saying that it’s 6-9 weeks, I was actually messed up, because I mixed up months and weeks. And I really think she should correct it.

Anyway, back to the real subject. Today in science class, we did a lot (not exactly a lot), well, actually nothing. But then we Alexandra said we had to study for our science exam, and then we had to do a worksheet for English and explain the respiratory system in our notebooks. It took me 15 minutes and my math took me 25 minutes because it’s all in Spanish and it’s really hard. But that’s part of learning Spanish.

In art class yesterday it was quite fun because we worked on a drawing that you copy from a book and you put some squares on a piece of paper and then number them, and then when you say on square 16, there’s a circle so I have to draw a circle in square 16. But the cool thing is that it becomes 10 times bigger.

Updates from this week

Here's some random information from our week:

Weather: Several of you asked about the rainstorm we mentioned in our last post. It rained. Not as hard as the weather channel predicted, but still pretty hard. Three thoughts about October rain in Madrid:


1) Drying our laundry was difficult even under dry conditions this month. The rainstorm = drying laundry in our tiny kitchen.

2) There is no equivalent of weather.com/street-level doppler radar here in Madrid (that we have found, anyway). The closest you can get, in fact, is a satellite shot of all the Iberian Peninsula. This lack of street-level radar makes dashing out between rain showers to do those errands (or exercise) impossible, because you just never know when it’s going to start pouring again. It’s like going back to the 1990s, in terms of knowledge of what’s coming your way.

3) The rain has ushered in cooler fall weather – 50s and cloudy. Heather, who was under the illusion that Madrid would be sunny and 75 all year, has been grumpy all week.


Fitting in (or not): So Jon and I have both commented on how we appear to be easily identifiable to Spaniards as non-Spanish. We don’t exactly look Spanish, we have an unusually large family (by Spanish standards) and in terms of style, we come from the lowest-10% segment of the U.S. population (academics), which in España translates into the lowest .5% of the population in terms of dress. Many people start speaking English to us practically before we open our mouths.


This (and specifically, the worst-dressed part) led to Heather purchasing a pair of jeans today. See, the boot-cut jeans that Heather just purchased from Gap this spring (thanks Gap!) are so out of style here in Spain that you don’t see any woman wearing them. They wear skinny jeans. Every. Single. Woman. Kids wear skinny jeans. Even men wear skinny jeans. So now Heather has a pair of ‘80s style skinny jeans (for twelve Euro!).


Seth’s report card: We had Seth’s parent-teacher conference this week, and found that once again, there’s a wide gulf between our child at home and our child at school. The first words out of the teacher’s mouth were that he’s “muy contento” – very happy. In fact, she used all the Spanish words for happy: contento, alegre, feliz, satisfecho. Happy, happy, happy, happy. In fact, she portrayed him as the model student: eats everything at meals (even meat!), plays nicely with others, goes potty willingly, plays with everyone in the classroom, exceedingly verbal, advanced for his age in terms of cognitive ability. The only thing that makes him sad is conflict (he runs away) and boredom; when the latter strikes, he approaches his teachers and tells them “I sad. Call my Mommie. Her name Heather.”


In part, we’re relieved to hear he’s adjusted well. But we’re also suspicious. Do pre-school teachers butter parents up by telling them their kids are fabulous? Or is it really possible that, as our kids’ teachers have all uniformly said, we’ve produced three happy Starhills who eat everything on their plate and are very smart? And if so, how is it exactly that the children who (sometimes) act like little demons at home get such glowing report cards at school?


Nathan’s nose: The rainstorm led to a slippery playground, which led to Nathan bonking his nose on the pavement. Still swollen after a couple days. We got x-rays last night, and he’ll see the doctor on Friday. Will post an update when it becomes available. We’ll also post a list of the Spanish medical fees we’ve paid so far.


Nora’s science: Nora’s science unit includes the reproductive system. She just calmly informed me that babies are formed when a sperm meets an egg, and that it takes “six to nine weeks” for a baby to mature inside the mother’s body. I wish!!!

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

From Nora


Today in class, we did a project about the respiratory system. (the respiratory system is how we breathe.) It included a bottle with the bottom cut off, 2 water balloons, 2 straws, and a plastic bag. BUT, of course, my balloons were too big . I brought red balloons, like my science book had.